The Attachment Matrix

Core Principles:

  • Attachment Currents: Deep patterns established in earliest relational experiences

  • Four Attachment Strategies: Secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized membrane configurations

  • Earned Security: Capacity to develop healthy attachment regardless of early conditioning

  • Mentalization: Understanding that different bubbles have different internal attachment realities

  • Dynamic Strategies: Attachment patterns as fluid, evolving systems rather than fixed structures

Technical Elements:

  • Origin Waters: Primordial environment where first relationship patterns were established

  • Membrane Permeability: How attachment shapes boundary management strategies

  • Healing Whirlpools: Therapeutic environments enabling attachment pattern evolution

  • Hypervigilance vs. Independence: Contrasting survival strategies in anxious vs. avoidant attachment

  • Approach-Avoidance Conflict: Disorganized attachment's simultaneous seeking and fleeing

Visual Elements:

  • Underwater cavern with luminous Origin Waters

  • Four distinct current systems with unique flow patterns

  • Bubbles with different membrane characteristics and movement styles

  • Healing whirlpools where different attachment patterns converge safely

  • Vast oceanic plain where all currents eventually merge